Separated From Your Partner? Here Are Some Practical Steps | Sydney Family Lawyer

Just separated? This can be an emotionally overwhemling time - but taking the right legal and practical steps early can help you protect yourself and your children. As family lawyers based in Sydney, we've helped many clients navigate this transition with clarity and confidence. Here's what you need to know right now.

Step 1: Plan Parenting Arrangements After Separation

If you have children, it’s important to make a plan for how the parenting arrangements will work after you separate. Consider:

• Who the children will live with

• How time will be shared between you and the other parent

• Schooling, healthcare and day-to-day routines

• Arrangements for holidays and special occasions

The focus should always be on what is best for the children. If you and your former partner can talk calmly and make decisions together, that’s great. If not, parenting mediation (also called family dispute resolution) can help you sort things out without going to court.

Step 2: Get Early Family Law Advice in Australia

Obtaining legal advice early in the process can save time, money, and stress in the long run.

A family lawyer can give you tailored advice on your rights and obligations in relation to parenting, your property settlement, and your ongoing financial support. It doesn’t mean things are necessarily going to court—it just means you will have understanding of where you are placed, and can make an informed decision.

At Moran Family Law, we offer fixed-fee initial consultations so you can get clarity without pressure.

Step 3: Protect yourself

It would be a good idea for you to put some measures in place when you separate from your partner. Consider:

• Setting up your own bank account

• Changing passwords to your email, phone, computer and online banking

• Updating your Will and Power of Attorney

• Reviewing who is nominated on your superannuation and insurance policies

• Reviewing ownership structures such as joint bank accounts and joint tenancies

These are simple but important things that help you stay in control and move forward with confidence.

Step 4: Look after your mental and emotional health

Separation can be a really tough time. It’s normal to feel sad, angry, anxious or even a bit lost. Make sure you have support around you—whether through family, friends, a therapist, or support services.

Taking care of your mental health will help you make better decisions and feel stronger in the long run.

Frequently Asked Questions

**Q "Do I need to see a lawyer as soon as I separate"

A: No, but its a good idea to get legal advice early so you understand your rights and obligations.

**Q: "Can we make informal arrangements about the kids or money?"

A: Yes, many people start with informal arrangements and discussions, however they aren't legally binding. To protect yourself and ensure clarity moving forward, its important to speak to a family lawyer about formalising any agreements into a legally enforceable document.

**Q: "Is there a time limit to sort out our property settlement after separation?"

A: Yes. If you were married, you have 12 months from the date your divorce order takes effect to make an application for a property settlement. If you were in a de facto relationship, the timeframe is 2 years to finalise your property settlement.

**Q: "Do I need to move out of the family home after separation?"

A: Not necessarily. Many people live separately under the same roof while working things out. The decision to remain or vacate the family home usually depends on factors like safety, parenting arrangements, financial circumstances and personal choice.

Final Thoughts

Separation is hard, but you don’t have to do it alone. Taking these steps after separation early can help you stay organised, protect your interests, and plan for the future.

If you need practical legal advice after separation, our Sydney based team at Moran Family Law can help you take confident steps after separation - from parenting arrangements to property and financial matters.

Disclaimer: This article is for general information only and does not constitute legal advice. Every family situation is different. If you need advice about your specific circumstances, you should speak to a family lawyer. You can contact Moran Family Law for advice tailored to your situation.